We recognize a smile from a stranger and feel good about it. We respond to it with a smile of our own, maybe shy maybe diffident! We recognize tears and feel sad for the person shedding them.
There are no words spoken, yet a feeling is conveyed. Across the world, a request for a lift is recognized through a thumb. While two fingers, in `V' shape were immortalized by Winston Churchill as a sign of victory during the tense period of World War II! These days most politicians use the gesture hoping it will become true!.I guess body language is far older than the spoken language. I am just guessing but one thing I am sure of and that is an average of 67% of all communication is conveyed through the body and the rest is through the spoken words.
It
is an accepted fact that non-verbal communication, or Body
language as we call, it is active in every face-to-face encounter.
Through his gestures, the expression in his eyes, his face,
the way he moves his body, arms and hands, the person's body
reveals his true feelings; and his attitude towards life.
Let's face it, we have, at some stage or the other, instantly
disliked someone, whether the person has interacted with us
or not. He may be a total stranger but his body language puts
you off. |