Selling is convincing another person that
the value you have to offer is worth the value you are asking in return.
That's it. It's no more complicated than that.
The heart of selling lies in figuring out the value the customer wants or needs
and determining how that person wants or needs to be treated before, during, and after
the sale in order, for him or her, to consider
this to be an outstanding interaction, one that is worthy of the investment he or she
will be making.
Selling is not a script any more than building a relationship is a set of pick-up lines.
Great salesmen don't trick, manipulate, or cajole people into making a purchase. Neither
do they strong-arm, frighten, or intimidate people into making a decision. Instead,
all great salespeople do one thing extremely well: observe
life carefully.
By observing other people they begin to understand the value and the values
their desired customers want and need. One of my favorite quotes is from David Ogilvy
in his book, Confessions of an Advertising
Man. He wrote, "Creative people are
especially observant, and they value accurate observation (telling themselves the
truth) more than other people do." |